Single mothers and online dating
Guys my age would hardly give me the time of day, and when they did it was because they assumed I was easy and just wanted to hook up, nothing more which I am not looking for.The best luck I have had since having my daughter has been older guys (30 ).But over time the little boy was the best part of seeing her.He made me want kids after a long time of never wanting them. I'm actually more upset at losing him from my life than her. When I was younger, like pre-25, I wouldn't have considered a woman with a kid.You just need to be patient when you start looking and don't feel like you owe any asshole a shot. On the flip side, I do have a few friends that dated girls who had a kid already, and they moved right into that role flawlessly.So, it is easily possible that you find someone in their mid-upper 20's who is ready. We both have kids from previous relationships that are both 3.
I honestly couldn't see myself dating a woman with a child for at least another few years.
Not too many guys my age have kids and I don't know how willing they'll be to date someone that has one.
As a guy, seriously dating a single mom feels like an enormous amount of instant responsibility.
What if this doesn't work out, am I like the real father leaving all over again? Some guys are into the family thing, some guys aren't.
As a 21 year old male I prefer not to date single mothers.
But now that I'm in my late 20s, finding a woman that's not a mother, especially in my area, is going to be tough. My best friend's girlfriend has a little girl who is misbehaved and very rude.